answers are encouraged

what are your thoughts on marriage?


I'm starting to think marriage is stupid. people change. how can you be in love with the person you married in 20 years? they're going to be different. you're going to be different. nobody can promise anything for the rest of their lives. and people get married wayyyy too quickly these days. i think i might not want to get married. i mean you can live with someone and have a life together, but not get married. thats too...permanent? scary?


but then again, its a kind of security. it makes you work harder if you promise yourself to someone.

bottom line - people change. i dont think you can be happy with one person for the rest of your life. maybe for a few years. more than a few years. but not for the rest of your life. i really don't think so. there are a few exceptions to this. but for the most part, no.